Pardon my frankness, but honestly what in hells name are you talking about please? 1up you? Who gives a damn about that? I genuinely thought this was just a discussion on the brief subject of dominance. I am a man of blunt honesty and logic, I have no need to 1up anyone, nor did I ever seek to do so in this conversation.
What would be the point? If you need to 1up someone, that's just petty? I am honestly confused and that doesn't happen often. I state honesty, facts and simply agree when something truthful has been stated. I state things as they are, and if I have caused any misimpression, that was not intentional. I just thought I was having one of my random brief side discussions on another topic that I could state information on. Insecurity is another matter entirely, but that depends on who you are I guess. Little one is perhaps a slight over patronising tone but its a free forum to do as you please.
If you refer to where I have said I have never sought their submission, and I have been privileged with such, that wasn't an attempt to upstage anyone. I have zero doubt yourself and other dudes have had far more success than I ever shall, I honestly was speaking frankly and simply stating how things have been for myself. I never expect anything in life, to be given something such as a lady's willing submission is a fuckin honor. Still ain't figured out how I managed it and they all say something different. But as I said, no upstaging sought man.
But I agree on the fact we have gotten entirely off topic. It was still interesting to hear another point of view that somewhat seemed to match information I usually stated. I meant no offence to anyone, honestly if I had meant any I'd have stated it bluntly so there would be no mistaken impressions. But I digress, such is life.