Yeah man, I don't blame you. I've been on F95 and other sites long enough and seen soo many games come and go. Thats why I set a goal for my initial release to have enough content to show its more than just tech demo or one scene. That I am willing to put the time into my game. But honestly, I aint got shit else to do so this is a big hobby for me.
As for having input from the community, its not that I will take any and every suggestion at 100% value. I am the end judge, I will be the curator of the content. I do have a framework and world all ready in mind. What the community suggestions would be is the in-between filler content. If some one links a porn web comic and says I like that but with that girl, I can find a way to make it work. Or someone can suggest [girl] in [sex position] with as much or little detail and i'll see what i can do to work it in that still fits with my vision. To me, that sounds fun but if it does become a problem I will fix it.
Overall, what are the planned tags' dev? Its going to be a cluster fuck. I dont want to focus too much on any specific tag (Like this is 'The Loli' game), the game will be more like a super sampler at a restaurant. Some days I feel like a hamburger, some days i'll want a salad. Thats how my games going to be. Some times ill be in to some weird shit and ill want it to my game (not literally, scat is 100% never ever gona happen)