I don't think we should incorporate "in the real world" into this fantasy game, even though it tries to aim for verisimilitude. This scenario would not really exist. As I have mentioned before, I do know a black guy who was a bull for a white couple and the dynamic portrayed is completely inverse. He was young and broke, they were old and rich. Darell seems both older and richer than Nat and Ethan. Darell has all the power in the relationship. This plays into the fetish of course, but it is not the fetish in practice. In practice, the black bulls are sex workers hustling for a buck. In the case of my friend, he actually had a boyfriend at home and he needed to hustle for bucks by fucking an old man's aging wife because his family put him on the street for being gay and enjoying dressing in women's clothing. So yeah. The real world is tough. It isn't happy fun time and people play fantasy games like this to escape it.