no, i can make her, take a bath, go to her room, go workout.been a few updates since i played this, but when you "talk" to naomi, isn't there an option to make her meet you in the kitchen or elsewhere? think it also depends on when in the day you ask her.
At the evening, she is just in her room getting the big fluffly dress on, and when i talk to her she just says "not now"