to bring a bit of grounding
"NTR however is shaking the very foundations of societal existence."
That sounds very very open minded, right buddy?
this is arguably objective.though the phrasing could be less abrassive . it's based on majority views, while taking in the majority of NTR content as well. society irregularity can be boiled down to numbers based on such things. commonly across most countries, governments, and organizations, it is viewed as moralyl wrong. that reflects, statistically in law in parts of the world. far larger in number then areas that don't. in the u.s. divorce proceedings are affected heavily by it. in some middle eastern countries the ramifications can be even more brutal. a minority of the populace encurages adultry, cuckoldy and simlar.
that isn't to say that one should be judged for a kink, but the statical value of most kinks is minority. we coined the term to refer to something at least a little out of the norm that some find appeal in. thought objectivevity may not be your point here.
"sociopathic-masochistic thing they probably aren't aware of"
this I agree, is subjective. there are many aspects to NTR psychologically. it can be approached, in a few of many examples, as masochistic if the appeal comes from having the S.O, taken, sadism can, but is not always tied to those who find interest in the viewpoint of actually stealing the S.O., or in an (again objectively ) neither , in the case of times where the S.O. finds a better partner after being abused or neglected. in the scope of the mind it is a very broad kink.
while your facts presented themselves in the last segment are valid to a degree I'd like to point out the initial confusions to if NTR was actually being added when this thread first started. here was miscommuncation on the tags themselves so bringing that up as a deterant is largely moot, since the ordeal started from not actually not actually knowing defintively unti later.
the last time I checked in i was under the impression due to this, that NTR was not intended and it was a comms error, reading back further however it seems it was. it would have largely been less of a problem n the thread if things had been clearer, as it would have been known definitively where this was all going. at this point the games direction has been decided.changing it now would likely cause instability in support, though I would like to see an NTR path be developed alongside th more vanilla personally. for the sake of a middle ground.
largely, I can't really be angry at Dokai, having many acquaintances who are non native English speakers,I can say our language is exceptionally fucked up and these things happen.
generally with NTR, a search to see if it's been asked, or try and find if it is required content, then just move on unless something else in particular that day pissed in my cheerios., but things sadly lead to problems when lost in translation.
on a second personal note, depending on setting or mode, I do actually enjoy some NTR, a least....in the current forum tag coverage, though I believe specifics for me are Netori I wanna say....(if I am correct in that benig from the perspective of the Bull, being the one doing the stealing) my line in the sand more revovels around being persnted the viewpoin from the cucks side of things. that is, for me, best left for others to enjoy. I do not think, that NTR as a whole, even if not to my taste, deserves persecution in hentai. going out and actaully stealing somnes lover is...generally immoral to me, and outside of porn, most NTR would result in completly differnt reactions, but that is porn on a larger scale. you would be hard pressed to find NTR through forced sex succesful, and hard pressed to find someone actually would sit and let it happen, with the more likely utcomes in these cases being rape reports an at best...divorce if it was inteitoinal adultry. but again, that's porn. illusion and immersion is a big part of the industry. now...if you'll exscuse me I'm going to go throw a chair because of how badly my keyboard and fatigue have been fucking my own english after 2 dayson an hour of sleep.