You come into a thread for a game explicitly about cheating and netorare, where the author has directly said people who don't like netorare shouldn't touch it, and then go on about how people are afraid netorare will be forced on them and how their concerns are valid. And yet, when someone points that out, rather than moving on quietly, you double down and imply your "valid concerns" are making everyone upset, despite the fact that no one indicated that, other than maybe some minor frustration of having to address this exact same "concern" fifteen times, and then say only the author can really say whether you're wrong.
The whole thing comes across like you're just trying to stir up trouble while still being able to act innocent. If you wanted a direct answer only from the dev, you would have DM'd them, or quoted one of their posts, or directly @'d them, or something, anything to indicate you wanted a direct reply from the dev. But you did none of that. So don't complain about toxic replies when by every indication that's what you wanted from the start.
If I'm wrong, prove it and just move on, you've said everything you've wanted to say, so the only possible purpose for you continuing this is to cause trouble and derail the thread in an argument that's been hashed over three times already with direct replies from the dev you can read.