for me its also the worst part cause i only sexted with women the past years and didn't have sex. i want to see sex and some hot steamy teasing scenes before sex at best and no crazy much texting cause thats what i experienced too often irl so i agree with optional skipping of texting scenes and not put too much effort into them
if you like sexting so bad, why not chat with us guys here? be an "ensalved succubus" and the guys the horny dominant demon-lords. or whatever you're into. texting can be done just like that. you just need a bit of fantasy and open-mindness. but most guys here want to see sex cause we currently or for many years lack sexual encounters which ofc is for most women way easier) especially with hot women - don't know how easy it is to have sex with a hot guy for a woman but i still believe easier than vice versa.
i mean if mr.palmer likes texting so much too he surely can do it, but don't focus on it or make it at least optional.
(sorry for the small rant but had to for my mental sake)