Don't act like everybody is the same, or will end up the same. Don't act like vanilla is "horrible". People like what they like, no need to analyse or convince themselves that they should like it just because others like it.
I don't believe I am transgressing against anyone by doing so? It's joy to share with others what I enjoy and this is the closest I get to doing so with those that hate what I like. It's, whatcha ma call it, a discourse?
Now, the only thing in which I claim that people will be like me is this; Getting jaded about the things you like after indulging them for years if not decades. THAT state of mind leads to trying new things and there is where I claim that he
might end up like me.
Do you go through the same process of analysis with other fetishes as well? Like, have you convinced yourself you should like scat, pegging, vore or one of the hundreds of the fringe fetishes?
Glad you asked! Yes to the last and
not yet to the first two. As in, I used to hate vore but I have grown to like it after exposure and growing tired of just browsing what I like.
Not that I agree with the poster you answered to, as he was clearly saying it in a insulting manner. But your points (besides your personal preferences) don't make sense.
I do not believe that people are born with all the fetishes they'll ever had and are just waiting around to discover them. If it's true that our experiences and nurturing affects what we like sexually, then it stands to reason that people aren't even
capable of going through their whole life satisfied by just the things they currently like. Maybe the shifts are big, with them going through whole genres.
And maybe it's small things, like them just sifting through new sexual positions. But none stay the same, is what I am saying. And what triggers that change, ennui, gives everyone a chance at getting into NTR.