Do I think he has no female fans? Of course. If he did, where are they? Can he shoot goals? Of course he can. Do girls think he's cute? Marie and Emma seem to think so. I will point out though that they think he is "cute", and not "hot".
And as for the accusation I'm prejudiced against Dylan (or that I don't like him from the "bottom up"), when it comes to issues like consanguinity, of course I am. Especially since Sophia wants another child. But everything else is backed up with in-game references, including Sophia's own thoughts on her relationship with Dylan.
But my main criticism of Dylan is independent of any of that, namely his unwillingness or inability to engage with people. Even on day 1, his reaction to mowing the lawn is:
And it's left to Sam to take advantage.
Or Ellie, after she sees that her mother is willing to kiss another woman, she asks "Why not me?", and manages to seal the deal.
Or back to Sam, after he finds out Sophia has a weakness for young rock musicians, what does he do? Invites her to his rock performance.
Whereas back to Dylan, if you decide to set Emma up with Dylan
So completely lacking in any engagement with what Sophia is talking about and trying to do.