I understand what you're saying but for me a woman didn't have to have large breasts to be devastatingly attractive. I still feel exactly the same half a century later, or in other words the woman's bust didn't have to be comprised of mega-mammaries to create your "first stop" in my case. Where I'm concerned & very much speaking personally, I was prone to like shapely, as opposed to huge, breasts back then (& they could be of any size, big included), i.e. precisely how Sophia used to be & she could hardly have been called small in that regard.
At some point L&P, for reasons best known to himself but at which I can make a reasonable guess, decided 36b wasn't enough & increased to 44DD, or thereabouts. [Anna in AEA has always been the same size]. I came close to leaving the fanbase when this occurred, because to me it was comparable to her nose being extended by an inch & then everyone having to pretend it had always been this way. That romper exacerbates the issue, because at 38 years old it is highly unlikely that any woman's breasts of that size would defy gravity the way they do. They jar on me because, unlike the shota etc., they can't be avoided.
It's not the same as Dylan or Ellie 'growing up' in their general facial features & appearances, because we are here talking about a fundamental sexual aspect of the VN. If the majority don't find it important or actually love the "jugs", as they've become, there's not much I can do, hence the half-hearted acceptance you rightly detect in my post. I keep banging on about them because I hope the Dev may read this thread sometimes & at least give it a second thought before he increases them again to DoD proportions. As it stands now Sophia looks like many another porn game stereotype. I deplore this fact but I'm still here.....for now.