When you get married, these are strong feelings. You really only need your sweetheart and no one else. But over time, you will want variety. It's like being fed truffles and caviar every day, it's cool at first and then it gets boring. And I want something else, ordinary fried potatoes with a Bavarian sausage, for example. I have always loved and love only my wife. And sex with other women is just sex, a man is by nature a hunter and a polygamist.
Hmm. That's pretty interesting. I like the hunter concept and believe in it fully, to be honest.
We're a hunter gatherer species. Men hunt, women gather. It's nature.
Does your wife know is the question? I mean if I KNEW up front that my husband wanted to, like,
swing and stuff... I know swingers but my exes have never expressed interest and always voiced
disgust at that lifestyle. Even though wanting me to sleep with other people us technically that lifestyle.
If I KNEW that's what they wanted and it wasn't anything other than play, I wouldn't care.
Communication is key to everything. I don't want to be with other people. I only entertain the idea
because it's play that's consensual by both of us and my ex is a part of it. In an Alpha position.
I can say no (but usually don't), and my partner most definitely can say no and stop.
I can't say my exes believed in polygamy. Or polyamory. Not with me any way. They were all
way too possessive. And I never felt their cheating was emotional as much as self destructive.
They cheat, they come home unfulfilled and they expect me to finish the job their escapade couldn't.
So I'm not sure polygamy has anything to do with it. I think it's more opportunistic. More thrill.
I feel like the rest is a lie people tell each other. Just excuses. And people love labels.
Personally I think truffles and caviar sounds great, but yeah. Wouldn't want it all the time.
And unlike vagina having a different sausage from time to time is nice. You can do a lot more with
sausage than a vagina. That's another thing I often wonder about men. If you guys truly understand that.
That yeah you can spend all day fucking different women but a hole is a hole.
Fucking different penises though. No two are alike. No two men are alike. No two experiences are alike.
Women can easily fake it boosting your ego. But a man can't fake it. Unless the girl is just that stupid.
Sorry. I have a bad habit of rambling haha
So does your wife know? And are you okay with her having sex with other men?
Not girls. That shit is lame and pathetic. Other men.