i see lily as an excuse for the character to get into the mix of things without the mental gymnastics or focusing on finding the right puddle of code to start with..,
i usually just agree with them to have a day with them.., which they notice the recent dumping.., then walk in when you catch them, and talk about the serious stuff..,(usually the option in which your sad that they didnt trust you with their secrets..,) and then info flirt info flirt info flirt, last info.., and then seduce.., thats how i do it..,"
would be nice to see how people went along with their goes.., i avoid going into their room.., one thing to note.., if you can avoid playing around on the first day.., and if your character is sufficiently in the mood, you may as well offer to lend a hand when you find out their secret..,(something which my character tends to miss out on due to how they are stat-ed which i find unfortunate..,