Indeed, it is interesting to observe the moment before sex. Penile tremors, scrotal contraction, body flexion, smegma on the penis or vaginal dischargeWe have been trying a lot of different things out. Anywho, my personal opinion is, I like leading up to the sex a bit more, so that is something we are actually going to intentionally focus more on going forward. I even re-wrote a few scripts for this very reason.