I fully understand, but, if the dev is good, they should list any optional content on the OP.
Working on a game, pre-release currently, that has extreme fetishes and I will state that plainly, though there are some fetishes that will be SKIPPABLE, not avoidable. If you decide to skip a fetish, that fetish will be skipped every time from that point on. Skipped as in the character will experience it, but instead of seeing the visuals, there is a simple and short description given with no details.
Basically, if someone does not want to see/hear of these extreme fetishes don't play. Simple as that.
BTW, not looking down at people who see my game and pass it by. I'm just against those that dislike the game as I have designed it and then post how much they dislike it and won't play it.
And I am not bad-mouthing you in any fashion. There are games from vanilla to those that love extreme content. Pick and choose according to your likes is all I'm saying. I'm pretty cool with that. Free speech, sorta.