Mine?
I don't have a definition of it. It has it's own meaning and I don't substitute my own preferences.
NTR - has 3 forms. Netorare, Netori, Netorase
Netorare - The "bad" NTR. This is the one that the NTR tag on this site specifically refers to. MC has a LI stolen, by any means, away from him and it doesn't matter if it is shown or not, just that it still happens.
Netori - The "good" NTR depending on who you ask. usually nobody complains though. MC wins the heart/body of a woman that is already in a relation ship. Also by any means, whether genuine affection like romancing a woman who's husband is cheating or doesnt find her attractive anymore or is an abusing asshole etc, to more dubious methods...like blackmail if your MC is evil or an asshole. Pretty much the reverse of Netorare though that one is 99% of the time a malicious act of an antagonist.
Netorase - MC is a willing cuck and actively pushes his partner to sleep around. Maybe you could saw its similar to swinging/sharing but its usually more...degenerate? (The MC usually has a massive inferiority complex at least from what I have seen) But the main point is "Willing Cucklord", "Please fuck my wife", "
The BBC stretching my girl's pussy is so HOT" type of shit.
Now this is where things get more personal. On this site there is a section of the crowd that will cry NTR(the bad kind) if anyone other than the MC is having sex on screen. Like another couple, husband and wife, etc. who aren't even involved with the MC sexually. Hell, if another male even exists in the story some will pop a blood vessel.
But yea, that is what the voyeurism tag is for usually if the MC stays and watches or has the option to do so. Personally I don't like this content either(unless its two girls
) but I know not to conflate the two.
It's not necessarily bad but its like, if I am playing the game as the MC, I want to be in the action. Not watching "wasted" frames of other people having fun.
Edit: OH yea I almost forgot, some people will cry NTR(the bad kind) if the the MC has a threesome with two girls LMAO. Also if two Love interests that are already involved with the MC...
Kiss (group sex etc) "GASP".
idk what to say about this. I think it's probably best to ignore them mostly but make it optional anyway. if you plan to do it. I mean I get it, different strokes but calling everything netorare is just unreasonable. The staff of the site does not consider frivolous girlxgirl to be NTR btw. I don't either unless I guess if it's like an absolute intent to cuck the MC. I have not seen such a theme expressed though.
Just to be clear when I said group sex I mean MFF, MFFF where the male is the MC. MFM
will more than likely 100% get you flamed big time if you stick that in with no warning. As far as the average fapper is concerned that is all 3 types of NTR combined. "The Devil's Threesome".
Well, I have seen it done with what are essentially clones of the MC. Think like Naruto shadow-clones with Hinata. MC has a super power that makes copies of himself that he is in total control over?...Idk but I don't think most would accept alternate universe MC though... Still definitely in the "make it completely optional zone" though. Give the player the choice.