Yes, yes and yes, tell something I don't know other then how annoying sandbox games are and how I can barely see
this so called help ! .What this needs are quest notes telling us when and what time of the day this ! happens.
Nobody even bothered to make a walkthrough.
Actually, while the walkthroughs people were supplying haven't been kept up, the dev keeps a walkthrough updated on his website, and there doesn't seem to be any barriers to viewing it:
You must be registered to see the links
As for the other complaints, there is an in-game guide, it's the icons on the characters appearing on the map. No, there's no in-game guide telling you when to do what, but most games don't have that -- someone usually has to make a mod to supply that.
I also appreciate the devs who put their own walkthrough/guides in their games, but they're the exception, not the rule, and if it's worth complaining, it would be even more worth going to the request threads on the forum and hoping someone answers your prayers.