You're right, but I have to repeat myself in this thread though. The swinging content is quite fun, and the douchebag route is pretty awful, but only temporary! If you try again and persevere, there is a somewhat early scene within that route where MC gives a special treat on a very special day, marking the turning-point from being a douchebag to a loving boyfriend (or master, it's up to you), and it's a very touching scene (you might tear up

).