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The sense I'm getting here is for those not wanting a romantic relationship with her, which is fine btw, feel the trauma she's experienced will make any relationship she has will inevitably be codependent and/or dysfunctional. While its not for us to judge her mental state, it would be far crueler to believe she in incapable of being in a loving, healthy relationship with someone who loves and respects her for who she is and not how she was born.With the way Nea is now, even if we say yes to a romantic relationship, that could still lead to suicide. All it takes, from where Nea is now, is one tiny push. Nobody here is ignoring that Nea was devastated, what we are saying is there needs to be a way around the suicide, give the player character a chance to work around a friendship route where he helps Nea get psychological help for the trauma endured instead of immediately ending the character just because we don't want to go all the way to romance. That's the thing about people who have suicidal tendencies, you don't leave them alone, that's the absolute worst thing you can possibly do because it gives them a chance to act on those tendencies with nobody to stop them or get them medical attention if they manage to harm themselves.
Also, yeah, it honestly does feel like manipulation to take the romance route. Nea's been through hell, then suddenly a knight in shining armor comes to Nea's rescue and Nea falls in love. That's not real love, that's an infatuation for Nea's rescuer, which isn't healthy. It is essentially Stockholm Syndrome, but directed at the rescuer (there's no name for this psychological condition, Stockholm Syndrome, while targeting a captor or aggressor, is the closest I can find).
Nea needs help to get through the trauma, only when that psychological infatuation because of the player character being the rescuer is out of the way will there be a chance for real feelings to develop and only then would it not feel like manipulation. As it is now, a relationship can only really serve to tie the player character down because all he needs to do is rock the boat a tiny bit and we're right back to where Nea would have been if told no to a romantic relationship. It is basically holding him to Nea all for the sake of preventing another suicide situation.
Not sure what you mean by not allowing Nea support, we aren't support, we're enabling a behavior that could end up making things even worse, and yes, ending with Nea dead (which means we might as well have told Nea no in the first place, same result). Nea's support would include therapists and other people helping Nea to overcome the trauma, not including people, like the player character, who enable behaviors that serve to fuel Nea's suicidal tendencies. No, it doesn't mean going away for a while, it means staying on top of Nea at all times to make sure there are no suicide attempts, making sure any treatments are being followed, and making sure all appointments are being met.
The big problem with the no romance end for Nea was that Nea was given the opportunity to commit suicide, that's rule number one when dealing with suicidal people, NEVER leave them alone with anything or in any place that could be used for suicide.
I guess it goes to the type of person your 'MC' is in-game. Given this is not real life, I'd like to take the optimistic view (given the lovers the MC has/will have), that she is someone who could use the support and reassurance there is nothing wrong with her, and if she is someone you can see yourself with romantically, then there should be no issue compared to the other LIs in-game. That said, I do agree some players may feel trapped not wanting a physical/romantic relationship with her, but do not want to see her despair and depression cause her to commit suicide or any type of self-harm.
That would be the only critique I have of Luxee, where it seems that we are just not given enough options in our relationships. Slightly off-topic, I also do not like how we treat the teacher. I'm not into Dom/Sub play and hate any and all degradation roleplay, so treating the teacher like the MC's personal cum-dumpster slave and threatening to impregnate her at any moment, regardless if she gets off on it, is a turn off for me.