Just for the sake of it...He listed Loli and trans as fetishes (both are things you can BE) but seemed to think somehow redhead absolutely did not belong. So maybe now you get where I am coming from.
You said it yourself: "can BE"
Being a TRUE redhead isn't something you chose. Either you are born with it or not.
Being a L0li is something you haven't 100% control over for a few years too. But you still CAN chose to dress either more adult like when you are in that age or to dress more childlike, when you out of that age.
Being a trans is a step you chose. Yes, you don't have control over it, if you feel stuck in the wrong body, but hormons or an operation is still the persons decision.
I hope you see, that your examples don't fit.
And Master of Puppets did a good job trying to explain it to you what I ment.
And besides that...that was MY list... NOT a suggestion for thread tags or some official list. I can do with it and call the things what I like. The point is that people understand what I mean and not to complain about the correct wording.