I can understand that, but developers also need to be able to ignore the hate, since every game in existence will have it to one degree or another, I'm not saying it would be easy (and have seen some of the toxic comments in this thread), but I'm sure it's something all developers have to deal with at some level.
The question is will the developer try to ignore it and push on, or just abandon the project altogether, because it would be a real shame to lose this game.
Maybe the staff could do something about the kink shaming/toxicity towards gay/trans etc etc and start banning them, there really is no need for it, if you don't like those kinds of things move on and play something else, all the toxicity achieves nothing, except make developers wonder why they even bother making games.