when you're talking to her in the kitchen in the AM, you should see an option that says Approach Her. That'll take you to the menu where you can get to Customize, IIRCHaving an issue with Blair. Once married I can't remove the chastiity belt. Is there a way to get into her Customization screen, or is figuring out how to remove the damn thing a hellish torture dreamt up by a particularly sadistic dev trying to cuck the MC?