I understand your point of view on this but still, YT shouldn't be devoid of blame for this either, he has repeatedly said many times that he planned to release the game on several occasions spanning over the course of 3 years without a proper product to show for it.
Imagine being told by a friend that he'd treat you to dinner on a Restaurant tomorrow, and since we're human we have expectations, only for that day to come he says he can't because something happened and asks you if he can reschedule it to next month, no biggie that not a big deal, yet when that month arrives he says the same thing again, for the next 3 years.
Sure, we may not be paying for it, it may not affect any part of our lives aside from giving money he wont be taking unless the game is finished, but he's already given a promise and created exceptions for himself from MANY people that check his Patreon, and Discord often, that he, apparently, is incapable of fulfilling, which in turn disappoints lot of people.
All I really want from him is transparency really, and with his last post being on November 8. I'm just concerned with communication towards his Patrons at this point.