This quest is a bit difficult to do. She very rarely goes to the gym shower, the best thing is to go every day until you see her in the shower. personally that's how I did it.
if dad is no longer here. That's probably why you're stuck. you have to start again. that's why the kendra quest is urgent to do as soon as dad arrives. the count in town is launched. because when you go to talk with kendra in the late morning or afternoon daddy will appear to talk to you too. but if he's already gone this conversation will never happen and therefore kendra will be waiting all this life in the kitchen to have this conversation with you and your father which will never happen. laughte