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Again, totally off topic, but for me, it's not about the hymen or about the "experience" for either partner. It's about wanting to wait for the right person, as opposed to caving in to "needs" or peer pressure. To me it is more on a spiritual level than on a physical level, and that's why I don't really differentiate between male and female virginity.Wow, that's rich. Maybe from a dude's point of view. I really don't care what you are reading in any of these VN's, for most women it's extremely personal. For them, not you. You don't matter in that. Sorry to bust your ego. It's also a painful, ugly experience. Trust me, they are well aware of that going in, way much more so than any dude could be. Laughable some of the crap dialog you read in these VN's "She's so tight it's just as painful for me" which is the biggest bunch of all the bunches I've ever heard. It isn't shit compared to what she's experiencing, both during and after (for a day or two). Unless treated with the ultimate compassion and caring by her partner, it can foster some pretty damned deep burning resentments. Speaking of resentments in the first place and in this day and age, how many 2023 young ladies do you think you will find who will not resent having her virginity treated as if it was something anyone was entitled to. Or one who will not resent the fact that anyone would consider her in some substandard way to be unable to commit to her relationships just because she didn't "hang on" to that excruciating experience.
So I actually agree with you, the right person will treat the woman "with the ultimate compassion and caring" and certainly not "treat her virginity as if it was something anyone was entitled to".
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