I'm curious, do you feel it infidelity if he left/abandoned her?
is it infidelity if he went missing and has been missing for years?
is it infidelity if he is quite literally dead?
Do you think the only right thing for her to do is to slap on a chastity belt and never love again?
I'll grant you her body is very unrealistic in proportion and I would tone it down a little myself.... But also WHAT IN THE FUCK??? Bella is absolutely smokin!
Who is your favourite because I think that will explain all of my questions
I feel that Bella's husband is most likely dead and as a widow, she misses him and feels guilty for thinking of being with someone else. I mean, she was definitely married as she finally removed her ring, which to me was a VERY important event. I am a widower myself who lost his wife just last year and I have talked to a lot of widows and widowers in the past year and it is pretty common for many to still consider themselves married when in fact, they are not. And they feel a great deal of guilt for thinking about being with anyone else. It's part of our mindset, being married for so long (in my case, almost 37 years) you are used to being married, you are used to it being wrong to think of being with someone else as as faithful type of people, we would never do such a thing. One cannot change one's mindset overnight. When Bella removed her ring, that was HUGE when it comes to a widow accepting that she is no longer married and fighting off the guilty feelings you have, even though you're no longer married and have no reason to feel guilty.
Someone posted that if you had no reason to feel guilty, you wouldn't... that simply not true, at least not in the case of a widow or widower. It takes A LOT to get past that guilt.
There's also a little known thing called "widow's fire", and that is that widows and widowers can be very horny/aroused etc... (look it up online). So Bella's character REALLY sticks to all of these facts and makes me think that DPC knows a little something about it, or at least has done his research.
At the very least, her husband has gone missing and she doesn't know what happened to him, which still validates her feelings and actions. She's certainly not divorced... she still had her ring on until recently.
Anyhow, it's why I prefer Bella... I definitely understand where she's coming from. It's been the roughest year of my life.
