This Tennis date is the only thing you always bring up
. Have you considered that not being comfortable with something is not the same as not doing it. ? . Maya clearly not liked the HOTS stuff, and yet she still did it anyway.
Jill, could feel uncomfortable, but Still going on the Dates and and even do Sex, Not mean she enjoyed it as much. But you fail to understand She is rich and has a high social status.
since her Sister died, Her parents Might very well can expect her to marry a Rich powerful guy, setting up dates for her and etc. Which She does for her obligations. But She wont start with this during her date, She won't even say it, this way. That is why she say things the way she did, it not mean she did not feel uncomfortable , but it's not imply She never had sex