Rehwyn
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Overall agree, except regarding point 1. Studies have generally found that on average people in poly relationships have the same (or better) relationship health and commitment compared to monogamous relationships.Haha yes agree again, but point one would have opened up other possibilities (if DPC wanted of course), rather than having to deal with the insecurities of both Josy and Maya while in a relationship with both (friendly or more), having to deal with the insecurities of the one you pick when confronted daily by the other.
My reaction now (as most likely back when I was that age) would have been one of these 3:
In reality a similar situation never occured to me, the closest was having sex (once) with a friend of mine who was bi and already dating a girl (who wasn't a friend, but still part of the same company), it didn't turn out good... mind you sex was wild, but then all 3 of us felt like shit and... well no more friendship for me and my friend and no more partnership for her and her girlfriend.
- pick just one, no matter how much one can love 2 different persons at the same time, it never is really to the same exact degree
- picked none, never loved drama and having relationships with multiple people at the same time is always recipie for drama, no matter what
- being a total a-hole (yes I was a proper DIK at times), screw them once to get a kick out of a threesome and then move on
Obviously it's not for everyone of course, and there aren't a lot of examples of healthy poly relationships in media and public life to model after (most people in poly relationships keep it publicly hidden due to negative social stigma), so there's more learning involved and potential mistakes along the way.
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