Just because BaDIK is a very popular game, it doesn't mean we're all fans of the aspects you just brought up. We don't all love the game only because of how the girls look. It's a very shallow way to look at the game's popularity or why we adore the women in it. It has more to do with focus on character driven storytelling and a lot of us have grown fond of the girls based rather on their personalities and character arcs. Looks are often secondary.
Besides, if you search around you may find plenty of complaints and memes about the girls' designs. To name a few, just look at Jill and jokes about her raccoon makeup or goblin smile, or perhaps you'll notice people pointing out Maya's rough skin or Bella's oversized proportions. You're also not alone in liking less makeup. DPC has started doing it more lately and players sing praises whenever a girl appears with little to no paint on her face. Of course, some people are also casually shallow and are automatically drawn to chicks of particular hair color, ignoring everything else, or don't even give a girl a chance just because they don't like tattoos or piercings.
Ultimately, I think you're approaching this topic from a wrong angle. People aren't only drawn to BaDIK because of the specific ways the women look. The designs are mostly DPC's taste, the story is his vision, you either accept it, learn to love it or find something else to play. Just because the game might be missing exactly your type of love interest, doesn't immediately mean its players don't have overlapping tastes with yours. I'm sure many of us also love the kind of woman you described. A few in the game come quite close actually, either looks or personality wise, and they all have respectable fan bases.