Personally I think you're looking at it from the wrong perspective: it's not that you're not allowed to do X/Y/Z actions because of your affinity; the affinity is just a representation of what actions you have already taken.Badik biggest Weakness is the Affinity system, and the Status system. It goes against the sacred mantra which is " Follow your Heart " . These systems prevent you to do so, because, decesiosn you make that often if not never, has nothing to do wiht the girls, but they have some super ability that makes them sense your aura , and becasue of that no matter what you do for them if your Aura is not the right one, they will reject you.
Example with Jill: when you go on the tennis date, if you're a DIK, complimenting here comes across as a typical douche who's just complimenting her to get in her pants ("You look hot!") because you've been acting (in recent gameplay) like a DIK. If you're a CHICK, you compliment her and she's not getting the feeling that she's being hit on by a jerk and so can take the compliment properly.
Right, so if the MC is behaving like a DIK for a while, then characters are more likely to be suspicious when they try to act like a CHICK suddenly (eg, the Jill compliment above). Your actions speak to who you are.In real life, your actions speak, and not a mythical, aura around you![]()