I kind of disagree
To me it was clear she has feelings for the mc especially after that scene early in the game
Where they are on Maya's bed kissing and she is wondering what the mc is doing to her
She was needy at that time, family issues, relationship issues, stress, and as she said, the MC was there for her, she needed someone and Josy wasn't there.
And that she started to like the MC that's obvious, I never said otherwise, but if you remember, in that beginning you mentioned she was alone, full of problems, only the MC was there for her, when they almost kissed for the first time she backed off, she knew she was doing something wrong but she needed it so she gave in, if Josy had been there she wouldn't have even considered something with the MC, even if she and Josy were fighting and taking a break.
I don't think this "feminine" definition is related to the sex at all. She explained that she meant that he was very good at making emotional connections with women. That he always finds the right words to calm and comfort her, that she feels safe next to him, that he cares about her. And it's not just about Maya, this is the trait that most girls appreciate in him.
Just remember, Sage says almost the same thing, he is the only one she can be herself with, openly discuss her feelings and emotions, feel cared for. And that's what the means a world to her in their relationship, his footlong is a great addition but not what comes first. Same thing with Jill, she even complained about her dating experience with Rusty and how seeing him play the "masculine" tough guy with his friends and not paying attention to her was a big red stop sign for their relationship.
As for their sexual relationship, Maya seems to be pretty comfortable with this, yes, at first she was insecure and doubtful, but lately, in the scene when they were watching a movie on TV, and at the dorm party, she was quite confident and proactive, which looked more like she was enjoying it much than just trying to cope.
I didn't say his feminine side had anything to do with sex, in the dialogue where Maya tells him why she thinks he's feminine she explains why, and that's basically what you wrote.
My comment about a lesbian having a thing for a guy who is feminine and good in bed wasn't directed at Maya, it was generalized.
I said that Maya liked him because he's feminine, I was wrong there, I should have said that the reason she got close to him and got along with him so easily is because he has that feminine side, and again, like you said, a lot of girls like that about him.
As for their relationship, especially in the scene where they watch a movie on TV that he gave her, to me that felt more like a moment between good friends than a couple, so I think that what she feels for the MC is not that strong, compared to Josy of course, and we see it again in the scene where he breaks up with them, Maya was sad, but she accepted it well, as for Josy...