As Lisa punishment goes. If you got some private punishment for yourself in the past page 1 post 2 is guide how to do it and here is mine (have to get publicly punished at least 1nce).
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After that make sure you got i "dont want to be punished" enabled if costs are at 0, then just make sure you punish both sisters at lunch failed homework and cigarettes (dont do those on friday later on) and all the time after punishment next day check with mom "i know what i want" for extra line.
Also check previous post for 2.0 guide and post #1 and #2 you might see what you are missing.