I'm really sorry to hear about your losses. It's completely understandable that personal matters take priority, especially with something as significant as losing close family members. It's amazing that you're still pushing forward with the game despite everything you've been through.
As for the negativity, unfortunately, it's common for creators to face unreasonable criticism, especially in creative spaces. People often forget the human side of development and how much time, energy, and passion goes into projects like yours. You absolutely deserve the right to focus on the fans who truly support and encourage your work, especially those on Patreon who value the effort you're putting in.
It’s great to hear you're back at it full-time, and your real supporters will definitely be excited for what’s coming. Keep your head up, take your time, and know that those who truly appreciate your work are here for you!