That's the point of femdom, to be mean. The sub part with Nat was great, the dev clearly has a knack for it, wouldn't mind seeing some with some other girl/futa.
I mean vanilla and romance are nice and everything, but a little fetish never hurt anybody...that bad. Ultimately it's up to the dev, the game is great either way.
i guess you never heard of "aftercare"
my kind of "dom" is the gentledom...where the humiliation is actually just teasing...like the sub is a pet you love a lot, but sometimes you must be harsh, but you feel guilty about it, so you try to be nice as possible even during the domming XD and then during the aftercare, you spoil your sub with love and affection u.u in a way the game "The Headmaster" explains decently the kind of domming i like: it involved pain, humiliation and pleasure...and i add love (because you must feel something for your sub, so you can care for them)
honestly, i've zero problems with futa and traps...a good love story is still good regardless of the characters' beliefs/genders/religions/skin-colour/genitals (thanks Mass Effect for teaching me that and specifically: Liara, Tali and Garrus)
I stay away from NTR... Sharing is already a stretch(at least i can decide if my girls are allowed to have sex with whom...don't like it, but being allowed to decide that, makes it easier to accept it)
also is it me or i can't trigger the library events? i did the futa-path with Heather...like, i study at the PC and says that i must go to the library, i go there and everytime says "future updates"
UPDATE: i rebooted the game with the incest patch...everything solved XD