Point is the PC is always depicted as experienced, which makes out Jaye's situation to be kinda creepy honestly, because, despite being the same age, it puts them on different levels of development.
Like, what is the deflowering fetish supposed to be about in this case? Save Jaye from the influence of other men, until daddy PC finally corrupts her? To me this creates a jarring difference between the story and the porn side of the game.
Agreed. It's more realistic that they both have had previous partners and for both to have tried to get over the other one while they're apart. Even if Jaye isn't actually a dick virgin (and if you play the game naturally she probably won't be) Alex still seems to be considerably more experienced and have had more relationships, however fleeting they might be. But perhaps what's really missing is symmetry in their attitudes and their experiences. If Jaye is going to save herself for Alex, then Alex should have had the chance to do the same. Imagine how different the first part of the game could be in that case. Right now Alex hooking up with one of the side girls goes something like this:
Alex: I have this thing for my stepsister, but we just can't be together. The pain is awful...I wish I could escape it and find some solace if just for a moment.
Side girl: Ooh, how romantic! I know just how to comfort you.
Instead the situation could go more like this:
Alex: I don't allow myself to touch other women because I know my stepsister is my future lifemate. We may not talk or have anything to do with each other at the moment, but I just know we're fated to be together and I want to be pure for her. ...Does that sound weird?
Side girl: *backs away slowly*
It's been a long time since I played the first part of the game, but I plan to start a fresh playthrough soon with the understanding and foreknowledge that the character I'm playing is in fact something of a jerk and a hypocrite and most definitely not a paragon of virtue. Like ename144, I haven't been able to pick the Linda option before because it felt wrong, but the fact is the affair is canon. The friend who helped our character has already been betrayed by Alex, and the fact that we might turn down banging Linda one more time isn't going to impress anyone or make the situation any better. Also, hurting Linda by rejecting her and then encouraging her to stay in an unhappy relationship is hardly heroic or in any way fixing anything. Another thing I want to try is to accept Tara's offer of help while at the same time NOT romancing Jaye. Squeezing in a little more Tara time with a little deception would hardly be Alex's worst act.
What really turned me against the Alex-Jaye relationship originally was how Alex's obsession lead him to take advantage of Fiona. Here was this nice woman in a horrible situation and in pain yet Alex was content to use her as a Jaye proxy just because she happened to have red hair. That just made me want Alex to put Jaye out of his mind, become a better person, and love Fiona instead.