I don't think so tbh. Many people like gangbang and interracial porn but do you think they would ever want their wife/girlfriend to get gangbanged or fucked by a big dicked black guy? Some might but I think the majority of people would never want that.
Its a crazy fantasy we get to indulge in without any risks and it evokes powerful emotions that we enjoy feeling.
Strange discussion. What is this fear? I'm a big fan of taboo content of all kinds, including NTR of course. I'm actually a pig in games. In real life I am married and a father. And I have never cheated on my wife. As far as I know, she doesn't me either.
We all have evolution behind us. And our primate ancestors were certainly not mongamous. They fucked everything that wasn't on the tree at three. They were philanderers, as they are in the book. And no matter whether we are loyal family men or philanderers, we also have this disposition within us.
Of course everyone has their own idea of life. Some want monogamous relationships, including marriage with children, others want open relationships, others just one night stands. That's perfectly fine. There are the right partners for every vision of life. Not everyone is made for a relationship.
BUT:
Which path we take depends largely on our upbringing and socialization. And last but not least, our choice. When I grew up, I naturally thought about what I wanted: to fuck around or to have a relationship, to have children or to have a career? And in the end I chose family life, knowing full well that I would miss out on the joys of other choices. My decision doesn't change the fact that other desires also lie deep inside me. And it's not just me. These do not disappear with the choise.
And this is exactly where games like this score points. You can indirectly enjoy the joys and dramas of other decisions, without the consequences. There are consequences depending on how the game is written. But these are then carried by the MCs, not us. We sit there and enjoy ourselves, like watching a good movie. At least that's how it should be. Have you ever asked yourself what your life would be like if you had chosen another woman at some point? Has your best friend or a work colleague ever had a partner that you found absolutely hot? And what if I hadn't been loyal to him and had approached her? And vice versa: what would have happened if you had spurned your current partner and he/she had turned to someone else? In this game we can see and enjoy it.
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Long story short:
I and the rest of you are no more perverted than any other person. You have secret desires whose joys and dramas you missed when you chose your path in life. And your fetish, which you now live through these games, compensates for this gap in the form of fantasies that you now enjoy this way. No more and no less. And that's the case with every person, everyone has some secret desires. But that certainly doesn't necessarily make you cheaters and cuckolds in real life.
So everything is fine!