I think you're overstating the escalation bit. Imo, shes much better about it than a lot of other characters. Cause the requirements for her to ask you are pretty significant.
I feel you're overstating the steps as well:
The hard requirements are actually minimal in regards to interacting with her.
- Have sex (somebody mentioned that just cuddling works but that'd be whacky) with a small aside that she's barely sentient due to fatigue.
- Make a camp.
- Talk to her about magic. (none of the other conversations matter, nor are most of them even remotely intimate)
Do a bunch of stuff unrelated to her (WC/KM). KM being a requirement for a bunch of things in general, like helping out the valks. After which after banging maybe a single time~
This is what she says on the first time at your door moving in.
That's a bit of an escalation there with no buildup. Most of the other pregnancies are natural results of fornicating. So while the pregnancy is 'sudden' (Hretha, Infrith, Atani (though you have to talk to her a lot to even start that), Brienne) it's a bit more 'natural'. Brienne doesn't intend to get pregnant. That's just what's going to happen when you go for an all day fuck session.
A planned parenthood is a beast all it's own. Like, damn, you don't even know each other all that well. Contrast Livrea
- Donate to her
- Take her out on a date
- Bang her.
A lot
- Have the talk
- Date her
- Profess your love to her
- Explore multiple conversation options as well as talking about the future
- Finally pop the question about children
You could compare it against Zhara but her (and harpies in general) are equivalent to Orcs in general in that they just want to rob and fuck. And showing kindness/mutual attraction to Zhara when she nightcrawls is how you open up the rest of her content.
I can bang out the rest while I'm at it:
- Zo has you rescue her, doing a lotof her training, improving her house, and later building a crib
- Aileh needs no emphasis.
- Kiyoko is a happy incident that you both accept and love
- Cat Harem has an entire quest, needs to be banged, and then further needs to be convinced
- Rindo has to be courted, banged, made your concubine, and finally deliberately impregnated
- Lyric has perpetual hero worshipping one-itis for saving her life and would birth a kingdoms worth of kobolds with you if you wanted
- Rags requires an entire song and dance of dating her
- Arona (in addition to doing her entire quest to begin with) sees you knocking up her entire tribe and wants to have your children.
Then there's the least explored but still 'natural' (but is where I'd put Vatia if we're honest,
- Eubicha gets off on mare play
- Gwyn is...
- The hellhound is all about pregnancy regardless of who she's fucking but eventually gets champion one-itis (until Agni)
- Vari just needs you to engage in a few romps of casual mindblowing sex
- Nihara just needs sex and a quest and is extra casual about the entire thing
I could use other porn game logic and state that Vatia draws a connection between sex and love. But we know that's not generally how things work here. Also Brint, I guess.
But in comparison to the greater half of pregnancies, especially given this is a deliberate decision, that's a bit much.
Even Salwah requires you create a stable environment before you engage in the most impersonal procedure of procreation possible and you additionally have to voice the question yourself.
So when I say it's escalating a bit quick. That's what I mean. It's in comparison to the others, which makes it as standoffish as it is.