Thank you for reading my rant. But yes you got it correct Tobs cannot take criticism and will just ban most people unless they are dick riders. I'm not sure about the whole Agent 17 stuff but if its worst then Tobs then thats really something lmao.
It's not that he made *some* bad content all his content stuffers from the same issue. Tobs works are usually too long and drawn out with just text wall after text wall and sometimes cringe, but thats not the worst part. The worst part of Tobs writing is that its very pretentious, It feels like your character doesn't act the way you want or says the most dumb shit because Tobs wants to make the PC an idiot. It's not like he doesn't write stuff that people like, he has wrote preg content before and I would argue thats one of the more popular fetishes. It's just like I said before, it stuffers from the typical Tobs problem.
For the barbarian thing, Miko/Mai, the den mother, Kinu, Nakano, and a few others make comments about being a barbarian. But no its not a noble thing, its something from Japanese culture called Xenophobia. I don't know much about Japanese culture but I don't think Tobs knows much either lmao. The kitsune act like they are better then you and treat you like shit. Just go talk to Nakano, pay attention to his attitude.
As for your family treating you like an outsider, ask about Kinu's marriage, your opinion doesn't matter to them.
Kinu being his OC? No thats Nakano. Your wife sucks up to him and praises him if he is marrying Kinu. Plus Tobs has commissioned a lot of art of Nakano fucking Kinu. or both of them could be his OC
Not all of the kitsune content is bad, kurako and Kokaku are pretty decent. But thats it lmao.
PS- I have no idea how to join the discord but good luck on that. Some kind soul here may send you a link or something