No, trust me. I'm stupid enough to actually care about the difference between futanari and shemale. I assure you that it's his fetish to have shemales who are not technically shemales, or dickgirls rather than futanari, if we're being nice to that crowd. Look no further than Syri. I love the fuck out of her, great character. Has a backstory that explains why she is girl with a dick, no pussy, literally lost in a teleporter incident, originally convinced she genital-swapped with her CO, found out he got completely physically scrambled to death and her pussy was the only recoverable part. Goes on to recover it if you give it to her, does not want to swap it despite her body actually rejecting those parts ala organ transplant and proceeds to use her own pussy as an onahole. And you either upload her CO to an expensive robot you bring along, to the guy who recovered his body (and is a cyborg) or leave him stuck as an AI and 9/10 times have to kill him, also if that expensive robot is configured as a futa her CO tells you he's getting rid of the pussy because it feels weird, but WILL keep the tits and dick. Then remember that Etheryn's race just bullshit has a reason why their third gender is just girl with dick instead of pussy.
It's more consistent that he's got this hang up that the western community at large has, where they don't want futanari because pussy is weird there, it only makes sense to have one or the other. But they don't want to admit what they want is shemale either, because that's fucking a man with tits and that's gay. Japanese Hentai community doesn't have this issue at all. You got Amanoja9 who's infamous for doing it, you got artists that dabble in it or even do it as a side thing like Bundosuiko, Wamuko Aigis, Mogiki Hayami, or even gurigurisan when he's not drawing nightmare waifus or THICC girls borderlining on chubby or fat. Importantly they clearly distinguish between shemale and futanari (literally two-gender in Japanese) and the Western community often fails to where it's just kinda accepted. Hence "futa_sans_pussy." This is the one case where I don't attribute it to malice. He's got a fetish for this thing in particular, and I suspect that's a part of why it's always you getting knocked up, be it by Syri or Etheryn, and never them becoming fully female or even futa. You guys just had the same thing happen to you that some people had happen with Berwyn. Submissive breedable Berwyn was a lie that his (original) writer perpetuated. You were ALWAYS supposed to end up submissive to the femboy with the giant dick, because that's what the writer wanted.
Don't attribute to malice what is just ultimately the writers writing for themselves and never you, and you being subjected to it. It's why people have complaints about almost every single companion, and only the vanilla folk are content with Brienne and Kiyoko to lesser degree.