Which is why even though folks don't (I still do) like her. I appreciate Urta. Because if she did something you didn't like. You got to tell her. Hell a few times you could really lay into her. I'll say it with my whole belly. She's one of the best characters to me. You get the investment relationship wise. Or you can get the investment from telling her to kick rocks. Not perfect but pretty good.
Funny thing that. Until Amily, Urta was a really liked character. Because as you said you could really lay in on her if you wanted. Fen wrote that into the game for players that didn't like her. She also had reasonable ways for her relationship to progress that weren't basic toggles.
I think a lot of the ate she gets is from dickphobes mad that the first (and only) hot fox girl in the game is slinging around a weapon of ass destruction.
So an additional funny thing about that.
From a meta side of things. Outside of that disastrous threesome Fen was pretty open about people writing for that character as well. I distinctly remember Fen talking about how he was totally okay with de-dicking if somebody wanted to write (or pay for him to write) that content.
People probably would have gone further in an alternative timeline where that threesome didn't happe and Fen, through various shenanigans, didn't just absolutely torpedo good will with a lot of the old writers.
Still, being willing to work with any content, as long as it's good, is a far cry from Izma whose writer had to be forced (and Savin in general) when you get down to it.