MWPA78
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- Nov 6, 2024
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Yes, you don't want the girl to have equal say. Control is good. You can use it for good.With all due respect, what the hell are you on about? Because it really feels like you just hate all parties in a relationship having an equal say in the state of said relationship. The reason not to say "I'll decide this myself" is being a decent person who cares about the input of your significant other(s) and respects the boundaries they have relating to their romantic relationship. There's a difference between being the "dominant" one in a relationship and being an overly-controlling partner. You talk about "women" and "wives" consistently acting a certain way that needs to be curbed by their partner as if they aren't whole-ass people with their own desires, just the same as men?
Stuff like this; a relationship isn't something to be "won." That's not healthy. It's about cooperation, about wanting your partner(s) to be comfortable and successful in what they want to achieve, and trusting that they want the same for you. It's not being a "beta male" to want the person (or people) you love to be happy; that's just being a considerate person. I'm sorry if you've had bad experiences with previous relationships, but I promise you that that's not a standard, healthy relationship. Not all men want polygamy. Not all women are obsessed with control. You can't attach those kinds of desires to entire genders.
There are always power struggles below the surface, and if you think there aren't because true love, she'll have you watch from the cuck chair rather sooner than later.

You want her to be happy, but you also want yourself to be happy. So you don't concede power. You keep power and act in a benevolent manner to keep the relationship wholesome for both of you.
(The picture is just for the giggles. I'm not calling you a cuck.)