Yea exactly. I try not to get attached or even really POV... if they fuck someone else, I POV as that person instead.
I'm not here to kink shame either though, enjoy what you enjoy, I just can't relate to much of it myself.
NTR must do something, for alot of people, as it's alot more popular recently.
That's a very good point. Depending on the narrative structure, it's easier or harder to POV, sometimes you are forced.
In this case I would agree that you mostly POV as the sons in all of these stories, but it also shows thought bubbles of the main women, so it's dual perspectives really. If we heard what the Dads were thinking, or had way more screen time with them, it would be easier to dispute, but they're clearly not the MCs in this case.