The only way to ignore the stress gain because insecurity is meditating in the rock at the lake for acceptance. In the church you can only pray for smaller boobs and penis as far as i can tell.
Insecurity is a shitty mechanic that brings nothing to the game. It should be taken out. All it does is force us to either play a character with average attributes, or spend a fucking month meditating the ass stuck on a frozen rock. Fuck that.
And the Willpower drop each day is too big. We need an easier way to raise this stat for defiant or chaste characters that don't get gangbanged all day long but still want to have more mental fortitude than a newt.
These two mechanics punish players for not playing average-boobed sluts, and it sucks.
Wait! I do get the insecurity thing! i don't consider this a shitty mechanic or a punishment for players who want their MC with a lewd body.
I mean, who have not suffer bulling for having a big bulge in their pants (i know in school of this boy who class mates constantly hit, laugh, grope and pull down their pants on the hallways because had a big bulge who could not hide, specially in gym class this was specially stressful) or big tits at school (I know of this girl who had big tits for her age and was constantly mocked by their classmates with all sort of nicknames, cow was the most commune) and felt embarrassed for being different in a very lewd way? Or... who haven't mock in school girls and/or boys for having and obvious lewd body? this is totally true to RL expectations and a cause of stress for young people and i love this mechanic being implemented!
But for people who want to get rid of this trait there is work to be done, and for those who want to keep it the alternative is not doing this meditation grinding and keep true to what RL expectations it is.
I do agree however its too much of a grinding to do for those who want to get rid of this "punishment" having so many things to do in the game already.
My suggestions:
A) Make a meditation yoga class in the studio dance and invest 1 hour daily to the grinding, the hour you lose to get to the lake and back that is.
or
B) Make the meditation 30 minutes isntead 1 hour?
or
C) Double the rates of "acceptance" for each hour of meditation
I didn't know will power drop, that is sad and unrealistic, will power is something you win over time, for it to drop has really no sense what so ever...