You are overthinking this, its not some kind of hypocricy or like major morality issue that is a reason for gore not coming here... its just a major mood killer for the vast majority of the people. People just don't wanna work on it. I got some weird niche fetishes too, but you need some self awarness, realize how niche of a thing this is. Wouldn't care if it was optional toggle, but I completely understand them just not wanting to include it. Life sims do not need to be 100% realistic, this shit is the reason why Accidental woman needed 50 000 patches to start resembling a game, realism alone is an absolute worst reason to include any game mechanic.
Back on topic though, does the pregnancy in dev branch go anywhere currently?