I agree that these aspects of the game are "half-baked" (I for one don't really get why my 10/10 physique large-sized defiant juggernaut gets on her hands and knees whenever she is attack by thin man when she one shots him with a kick) At this point in development this playstyle and fantasy is clearly not the focus, and even though that's unfortunate I wouldn't dare complaining or asking the devs for it. DoL has so much stuff to it by now I'm honestly fine just waiting around for whatever crumbs Vrelnir gives meI don't mind some soft femdom and I figured I could get some male enjoyment out of that as well, but even that felt a little half baked. I went a defiant route and was going to fuck around with kylar, got the event where she's sniffing your bedding and I chose the tease option. Why does my character, a male, sit in her lap, doing essentially nothing for her, when it would make way more sense to instead pull her into my lap? It's the little things