letting a woman take charge is a nice change of pace sometimes man. Its not like shes trying to degrade you by taking charge, more so prove her love through possessiveness. Its like she can only show her affection through aggressive displays of control. I mean its not like berry is stepping on your balls or anything, she herself says she couldnt actually bear to hurt you, shes just a lil kinky.
I still think it was a misplaced opportunity though to just have no sub girls in the sequel at all. In devine heel, every single woman is in a place of control, which i guess makes sense given the newly discovered world lore, you know the island/plants and stuff. Its still a damn shame though, diversety in personality never hurt a story, and it sure would have helped this one.