Do games with a healthy family relationship exist?

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So I think it's pretty impossible to make a game where the MC has family members that they don't have sex with, even if they're made to look unattractive, because it's all about living out the fantasy of being a total sex-machine for a lot of people, and as such, no woman should be off limits as far as they're concerned.
I think it is possible.

It can actually be successful just on the grounds of going against all conventions, particularly if it's well made. All it would take is a dev with nerves of steel who would thrive on all the commotion.:)
 

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Being able to trust your sister so completely is just marvellous, and in my opinion more healthy than forcing yourself to stay away because of some bizarre medieval hangups. :)
Sexuality put apart, sibling should all act with this level of trust and freedom. It's comments like, "don't look at your sister, she only have her underwear" that are unhealthy ; you look at her because she's your sister, not because she's a girl and woooow she's have nothing more than her underwear.


Maybe I should add a bit of craziness to spice things up.
Yeah, your game is really too serious. If you don't mind, you should put a crazy lunatic girl with platinum hair :p
 

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I would be ok with a game that has family that cant be fucked by the MC, but two very specific requirements have to be met for it to work !!

1. Do NOT make the sister or mother the hottest fucking character in the game, and the love interests pale in comparison to them. Otherwise every player is going to wish to fuck them instead of the actual options !! You dont put Anna (Anna Exciting Affections) as your sister, and the Mom from the Deluca Family as your mother and make them "untouchable, but give love interests in the realm of uggos like Scuz (Timestamps), and Karina (Freeloading Family) or Elena (Dating my Daughter). It isnt right !

2. If they are just their to be family, they should be side characters shown only to support the MC, their sex life should be non-existent !! You can see them at the breakfast table imparting wisdom (mom or dad), or at school if thats the setting (sister)... However you should NOT see them having sex... if the MC is not in line of sight of them, their sex life should be oblivious to US the player. If the MC is spying on them, and thats why we can see the sex scene, than WTF ?? He's already a creep then, and may as well fuck them himself !

Most people/devs fall into one of those two pitfalls, usually both, but number 2 is more common.. your playing the MC (no need for self insert so shut up with that excuse, not EVERYONE does that !!), and your following HIS/HER story, but they just have to put a "meanwhile on the other side of town you aunt is cheating on her husband with BBC, or your sister is getting gang-banged... WATCH THIS SCENE and ENJOY IT !!"... I mean come on...
 

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That's the heart of it in my perception, the main reason why one might say there are few 'healthy' (or really just 'non-sexual') familial relationships in games - a restricted audience.
Haha. I guess you're right. But I get it why a part of the adult gaming community are greatly repulsed by incest. Hell, if you'd asked me two years ago, I'd say that I'm one of those people; until I discovered NLT Media's comics :p . I guess even the thought of having sex with a family member disgusts most people. And you can be sure that it disgusts me too STILL. I would never even imagine anything like that in real life. But the thing is, while I'm playing a game I'm in character, seeking vicaroious pleasure, I'm not myself anymore. And just like killing innocent people and robbing banks in GTA does not make you a criminal, playing incest games should not imply that you're looking for such perverted pleasures in real life. Yeah, that was a tangent, why am I trying to justify my kinks again?!
 
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Sexuality put apart, sibling should all act with this level of trust and freedom. It's comments like, "don't look at your sister, she only have her underwear" that are unhealthy ; you look at her because she's your sister, not because she's a girl and woooow she's have nothing more than her underwear.
Seeing your sister/mother/aunt/cousin in her underwear = bad.
Seeing your sister/mother/aunt/cousin in a bikini when on holiday = totally acceptable.

A completely mind-bloggling double standard of our society.
 
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Seeing your sister/mother/aunt/cousin in her underwear = bad.
Seeing your sister/mother/aunt/cousin in a bikini when on holiday = totally acceptable.

A completely mind-bloggling double standard of our society.
You want double standard ? Go to the beach in countries where being topless at the beach is legal. There you'll found guys that can look at their mother/sister/whatever wearing nothing more that the small bottom of their bikini. This while they would be shout at if they look when the same woman is wearing a casual plain covering cotton bra/panties couple.
 

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Do healthy relationships exist outside games, is a better question. Is it so wrong to have a relationship with a game?
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Games where the MC's family are present, and the game doesn't feature incest - maybe a flirty sibling, but nothing beyond teasing. I know incest was a huge money maker for a while (who am I kidding, it still is, the standards are just higher), but literally every game I can find where a family member appears, they're a valid target for seduction.

Just once I'd like to see a game where your older brother acts as a wingman, or your twin sister introduces her friends who try to seduce you, rather than doing it themselves.
This is really hard to come by nowadays lol. Never really thought about it though and you're right
 

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What's that thing called, the "law of conservation of detail" or something?

Certainly a bunch of porn game creators are going to think that they shouldn't put a bunch of creative effort into a family member if that family member isn't a fuckable thing in their game. Players playing a porn game might expect that a character with a bunch of detail put into them is going to eventually be a thing they can fuck, because otherwise what's the point?

It kinda gets at the divide between a porn game and a game with porn in it. In the latter, there is a point to a character-ful family member other than being something for a dick to go into. I mean, the distinction I'm making is mostly semantic and really is about the expectations of the players. It's a kind of self-fulfilling feedback thing.
 
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You want double standard ? Go to the beach in countries where being topless at the beach is legal. There you'll found guys that can look at their mother/sister/whatever wearing nothing more that the small bottom of their bikini. This while they would be shout at if they look when the same woman is wearing a casual plain covering cotton bra/panties couple.
This is why I wish the world was more liberal. I know some countries are, but not all of them and even the ones that are aren't liberal enough in some respects. The prudishness we have towards sex and sexuality is ridiculous yet people still hold to these nonsense, puritanical beliefs of "modesty", "moral fabric", and all that BS.
 
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I think in Our Fate you can choose to have a non-sexual friendly relationship with your daughter(/adopted daughter depending on choice). But I haven't played that path.
You can. I have a proper father/daughter relationship in that game and stayed with the girlfriend.

My game has family in the name.

All the girls and men part of the family are well behaved and normal people.
Maybe I should add a bit of craziness to spice things up.
If by craziness you mean wearing part hats and drinking ale out of old boots while dancing to Ebeneezer Goode by The Shamen then sure, i'd be down to see them do that.
 

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If by craziness you mean wearing part hats and drinking ale out of old boots while dancing to Ebeneezer Goode by The Shamen then sure, i'd be down to see them do that.
Now that is an interesting idea for an event!
 

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If by craziness you mean wearing part hats and drinking ale out of old boots while dancing to Ebeneezer Goode by The Shamen then sure, i'd be down to see them do that.
Didn't knew it before, but now I want to see it too.
 
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Hear, hear.
This is why I wish the world was more liberal. I know some countries are, but not all of them and even the ones that are aren't liberal enough in some respects. The prudishness we have towards sex and sexuality is ridiculous yet people still hold to these nonsense, puritanical beliefs of "modesty", "moral fabric", and all that BS.

Yes, and yet it is rare to find people who are accepting of this. In my opinion, siblings within a minimal number of years can be the best safe space to explore sexuality, or more broadly, life in general - naturally. My sister and I explored a lot more than just some sex, but it seemed relevant to mention in the context of this thread. ;)
Many of my friends are quite jealous of the trust we have. It certainly was an interesting conversation when we told her husband-to-be, something we decided was prudent, all things considered.
Sexuality put apart, sibling should all act with this level of trust and freedom. It's comments like, "don't look at your sister, she only have her underwear" that are unhealthy ; you look at her because she's your sister, not because she's a girl and woooow she's have nothing more than her underwear.

*auditions*
Yeah, your game is really too serious. If you don't mind, you should put a crazy lunatic girl with platinum hair :p
 

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My sister and I explored a lot more than just some sex, but it seemed relevant to mention in the context of this thread.
Really dude! Too much info... :eek:
BTW... Once I was showering with my elder sister. I was like 5-6. She wasn't wearing a top, and when I saw the nipples on her flat chest, I said "Soooo, these become BOOBs"[I don't know why I said that out loud, was probably trying to play like a macho man or something]. And she slapped me so hard that I still remember it. :LOL: That's the only "sexual" experience I can remember of sharing with her. :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO: Other than that, we're actually very close, even though she's like 6 years older than me.
[BTW, don't take the slapping too seriously - where I'm from, it's pretty normal for parents and elder siblings to beat the young ones up, when they misbehave :LOL: ]
 

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Haha, eh.. that was meant as 'things other than sex.' :) Kissing and a little exploration between close, consenting siblings is nothing to get one's panties in a twist over.
Really dude! Too much info... :eek:
Personally, I think that is a bit different than between same-sex siblings. Completely legitimate slap in my opinion, it is important to set boundaries. I would have slapped my younger brother too if he'd behaved similarly. :p
BTW... Once I was showering with my elder sister. I was like 5-6. She wasn't wearing a top, and when I saw the nipples on her flat chest, I said "Soooo, these become BOOBs"[I don't know why I said that out loud, was probably trying to play like a macho man or something]. And she slapped me so hard that I still remember it. :LOL: That's the only "sexual" experience I can remember of sharing with her. :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO: Other than that, we're actually very close, even though she's like 6 years older than me.
[BTW, don't take the slapping too seriously - where I'm from, it's pretty normal for parents and elder siblings to beat the young ones up, when they misbehave :LOL: ]
 
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You can. I have a proper father/daughter relationship in that game and stayed with the girlfriend.



If by craziness you mean wearing part hats and drinking ale out of old boots while dancing to Ebeneezer Goode by The Shamen then sure, i'd be down to see them do that.
I too have kept the MC as a father to the girl, and I have two files, one where he stayed with his older girlfriend, and one where he cuts her loose and gets with the reporter...

I was willing to have him stay with his GF, and in fact was one of her staunch supporters in that thread where everyone hates her for being older and not as attractive as any other girl... However that bitch-fit she threw during the daughter's party made me start disliking her. Add to that if you stay with her, it starts interfering with the ability to keep banging other chicks... As soon as after the accident the MC told the reporter "no more sex" I immediately reloaded and played the other route instead... After all the MC still has to bang his publisher/agent's wife, that lady needs to be dicked to remember she has value since her husband is a scumbag.