...I agree, but it doesn't make the situation more appealing...
Personally, I'm not into clingy, emotionally immature, naive girls that don't have a personality outside of trying to be attractive to me, but I play adult games just fine. If you're playing adult games, especially Japanese adult games, you're already choosing to ignore cringey, predictable behavior that would likely make the most physically attractive woman to you extremely repulsive.
I'm also not into artificially colored hair, really skimpy versions of regular clothing, tits bigger than the person's own head, or ahegao either, but that's fine or even preferable in porn. I don't bother applying things I look for in porn to irl because I don't want to date a sex object. Similarly, I sure as hell don't want my porn to have exactly what I like irl because if I wanted a person that checks all my irl boxes and comes with real emotional fulfillment, I'd just go for a real person. The fuck am I seeking it in a girl that doesn't exist beyond a program on my computer for?