I'm guessing the hotel quest is forced ntr because there is no way to avoid putting someone with max
don't even technically need to delete the new characters unless for some reason you need to make room in the guild. Because elf clone #12314 has a blank slate compared to elf clone #12313.ah make new character and delete them is that what you talking about ?
Bonus bug (from v1.37, or at least v1.37 CCMod, never tested it on other versions): Wait to do the Love Hotel quest until Sandra and Blue rejoin your party (they leave at some point, then come back). Then get the Love Hotel quest you didn't finish previously from the tavern in Sapphire City again (disappears when Sandra leaves the party, reappears when she's back). Remove all the girls other than your wife and Max's ho and go do the quest. This bug does two things for you:
1. Unequips all your gear, including your wedding ring. Now you can have asymmetrical wedding rings (e.g. MC has sleep res ring, wife has regen ring or something like that)
2. So long as you continue playing with only Wife, Max, and Max's ho after completing the Love Hotel quest (i.e. don't change up the party at all), then Blue won't demand your wife when you stay at the Love Hotel. (realistically, this is functionally worthless. As if you need the time to find the other gems to get to the next phase and not have Blue demanding your wife, you probably won't have the the ability to go adventuring with a partial party. Unless maybe you just have no idea where that last gem is and its been driving you nuts. But also still less of a hassle to just save, ignore Blue cucking you until you find it, then reload the clean save and beeline to it)