Well, I don't really care if the man in such games is handsome or ugly. In my opinion, both are better than a faceless monster.
Also, I've noticed while playing a lot of NTR games that the really good games all have men with faces.
The bad and average games just save themselves the time and work and end up with a faceless or even a ghost.
This then destroys the immersion in such games when the guy has no face or not even a skin color.
But I do not claim to speak for the whole community here. Therefore, this is only my opinion
PS: Imagine good DAZ3D games with faceless men. Ughhh