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Dylan741

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Yeah, the "problem" is, that in the real world, most women probably wouldn't be too okay with a guy that comes on to them and pretty much moves into a position to start a committed relationship while doing the same with 5 or so other women as well.

Just as in OiaLT were everybody somehow was just okay with it and when you have characters that are otherwise written believable and well than it is a bit harsh to swallow the "oh, they are all just okay with it" pill if indeed that is the part we are going.

So, we have to see what happens when the "bomb goes off" and how the different characters react. I hope it will not simply be an "I'm okay with it" kinda reaction.

And about visiting the servers without the girl: That is just not possible. It would mean writing a parallel story (why would the MC even be in there without one of the girls asking to meet him there) and all of the pictures would have to be changed and rendered again...that would just be tons of additional work for little benefit.
Agreed, but as I said, imho, it's a cultural issue first and foremost in real life and it can reflect on how you perceive a fictional work that goes against it.
If you are accustomed by everything around you to see polyamorous relations as wrong, and be frowned upon and considering all the other psychological pressure to get your mindset on the monogamy as the only positive value, you will get that issue ( and girls and women are especially forced to undergo that from young age).
I'm not saying I'm a pro polyamorous at all costs, but I think that a big role in making these themes popular is that we are conditioned to see them as taboo, and it's in human nature to be curious about it, and these games can offer at least a taste of it without having to do that in real life, only one thing is never made clear enough for me in these works ( or it's rarely done).
Being in a polyamorous relation doesn't mean you're granted to have sex with as many women as you want without having nothing to fear, instead is committing yourself to an even more engaging role, because you need to love ( and when I write love I mean love, respect, treat them good and make all the women you are in a relations with feel really loved and respected) women like you will do in a monogamous relation.
Talothral with his works made a very good work on that in my opinion.
And yes, that was one of the weak parts of OIAL for me as well ( but I think it was due to it being Caribdis first work so he payed a little bit of inexperience) I agree, something that I'm seeing treated way better in Eternum, he's more careful and is planning everything with a good balance as of right now, at least to me.
We need to see when the time comes what he planned, but I think it would be good, I don't think there would be too unnecessary drama, but the right amount of it and a good ending to everything.

And yeah I agree and I said the same, freely roam in a story like Eternum with all the amount of things that are already in the plate would be an overkill, and I don't think it would add anything to the game, since it's heavily store focused and like you said the benefits would be minimal if non existent. :)
 

Yvier the Duck

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Yeah, the "problem" is, that in the real world, most women probably wouldn't be too okay with a guy that comes on to them and pretty much moves into a position to start a committed relationship while doing the same with 5 or so other women as well.

Just as in OiaLT were everybody somehow was just okay with it and when you have characters that are otherwise written believable and well than it is a bit harsh to swallow the "oh, they are all just okay with it" pill if indeed that is the part we are going.

So, we have to see what happens when the "bomb goes off" and how the different characters react. I hope it will not simply be an "I'm okay with it" kinda reaction.

And about visiting the servers without the girl: That is just not possible. It would mean writing a parallel story (why would the MC even be in there without one of the girls asking to meet him there) and all of the pictures would have to be changed and rendered again...that would just be tons of additional work for little benefit.
Realistically, yeah, an harem in a modern era is absurd. But you are ignoring two facts, being the first that this is not a realistic story and second that, even rare and absurd, harem relationships have been existing and exist in the real world. How is gonna do it Caribdis is a good question, but is not something impossible, only extremely rare.

In my opinion something is gonna happen to the MC just after the bomb drop up, maybe being kidnaped or seriously injured, the girls are gonna ignore the harem problem and they will focus on MC's problem, and then with more time just accept that the harem is not a bad situation, just strange, and maybe even hot (Caribdis is giving clues about threesomes and more, maybe my dreaming threesome MC-Dalia-Penny is impossible, but MC-Penny-Nova is gonna happen 100% sure).
But even with that I really expect Alex kicking the MC in the balls for that, and maybe Dalia chasing him for the house when she finds he's been with Penny and with her at the same time. I want drama, but the funny one.
 
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Agreed, but as I said, imho, it's a cultural issue first and foremost in real life and it can reflect on how you perceive a fictional work that goes against it.
If you are accustomed by everything around you to see polyamorous relations as wrong, and be frowned upon and considering all the other psychological pressure to get your mindset on the monogamy as the only positive value, you will get that issue ( and girls and women are especially forced to undergo that from young age).
I'm not saying I'm a pro polyamorous at all costs, but I think that a big role in making these themes popular is that we are conditioned to see them as taboo, and it's in human nature to be curious about it, and these games can offer at least a taste of it without having to do that in real life, only one thing is never made clear enough for me in these works ( or it's rarely done).
Being in a polyamorous relation doesn't mean you're granted to have sex with as many women as you want without having nothing to fear, instead is committing yourself to an even more engaging role, because you need to love ( and when I write love I mean love, respect, treat them good and make all the women you are in a relations with feel really loved and respected) women like you will do in a monogamous relation.
Talothral with his works made a very good work on that in my opinion.
And yes, that was one of the weak parts of OIAL for me as well ( but I think it was due to it being Caribdis first work so he payed a little bit of inexperience) I agree, something that I'm seeing treated way better in Eternum, he's more careful and is planning everything with a good balance as of right now, at least to me.
We need to see when the time comes what he planned, but I think it would be good, I don't think there would be too unnecessary drama, but the right amount of it and a good ending to everything.

And yeah I agree and I said the same, freely roam in a story like Eternum with all the amount of things that are already in the plate would be an overkill, and I don't think it would add anything to the game, since it's heavily store focused and like you said the benefits would be minimal if non existent. :)
I cant comment on the relationships part because I'm biased monogamy is in my blood

but it's always weird in these games that all the girls react to it the same way

girls are supposed to have different personalities but they're all okay with him being with other women

you expect me to believe that out of all these women, none of them feel jealousy

or anger

but again I'm biased because monogamy is in my blood and it's the only way I play

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Realistically, yeah, an harem in a modern era is absurd. But you are ignoring two facts, being the first that this is not a realistic story and second that, even rare and absurd, harem relationships have been existing and exist in the real world. How is gonna do it Caribdis is a good question, but is not something impossible, only extremely rare.

In my opinion something is gonna happen to the MC just after the bomb drop up, maybe being kidnaped or seriously injured, the girls are gonna ignore the harem problem and they will focus on MC's problem, and then with more time just accept that the harem is not a bad situation, just strange, and maybe even hot (Caribdis is giving clues about threesomes and more, maybe my dreaming threesome MC-Dalia-Penny is impossible, but MC-Penny-Nova is gonna happen 100% sure).
But even with that I really expect Alex kicking the MC in the balls for that, and maybe Dalia chasing him for the house when she finds he's been with Penny and with her at the same time. I want drama, but the funny one.
well my brother I'm just happy that the game has monogamy as an option

I just hope the solo route are well written and thought was put into them

and for the record, I reject every girl except Alex
 

Yvier the Duck

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well my brother I'm just happy that the game has monogamy as an option

I just hope the solo route are well written and thought was put into them

and for the record, I reject every girl except Alex
That's cool, I'm with you in real life, polyamorous relationship is not for me, the cons are bigger than the pros, but in this type of games the idea of making every girl happy is always a plus for me.
 
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That's cool, I'm with you in real life, polyamorous relationship is not for me, the cons are bigger than the pros, but in this type of games the idea of making every girl happy is always a plus for me.
it's funny I've never had a problem rejecting any girl in any game because once I find one girl I get attached to

that one girl and I don't care about anyone else besides I rather reject them and have them find love somewhere else

with someone that will treat them like they're one and only
 

Takkatakka

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Realistically, yeah, an harem in a modern era is absurd. But you are ignoring two facts, being the first that this is not a realistic story and second that, even rare and absurd, harem relationships have been existing and exist in the real world. How is gonna do it Caribdis is a good question, but is not something impossible, only extremely rare.

In my opinion something is gonna happen to the MC just after the bomb drop up, maybe being kidnaped or seriously injured, the girls are gonna ignore the harem problem and they will focus on MC's problem, and then with more time just accept that the harem is not a bad situation, just strange, and maybe even hot (Caribdis is giving clues about threesomes and more, maybe my dreaming threesome MC-Dalia-Penny is impossible, but MC-Penny-Nova is gonna happen 100% sure).
But even with that I really expect Alex kicking the MC in the balls for that, and maybe Dalia chasing him for the house when she finds he's been with Penny and with her at the same time. I want drama, but the funny one.
There is a difference between having a realistic story and having realistic characters. You absolutely don't need the former (and the game doesn't have a realistic story), but you absolutely need the latter for the audience/players/readers (depending on the medium) to be able to connect to your story. And so far the game delivered on realistic feeling characters, that is why it works so well.

So when all of those characters would somehow and without any conflict just be okay with being part of a harem, that would be weird, because that isn't how most real people would react. Also - so far - it very much seems like relationships in the world of Eternum (the VN, not the in-game...game) seem to follow pretty much the same rules and conventions as they do in our real world, meaning people have monogamous relationships, everything else would be viewed as cheating or having an affair.

So ending up with a harem option that is somewhat convincing and that makes sense without contradicting a lot of what we know about the characters and the world so far, will be very difficult.
 
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I cant comment on the relationships part because I'm biased monogamy is in my blood

but it's always weird in these games that all the girls react to it the same way

girls are supposed to have different personalities but they're all okay with him being with other women

you expect me to believe that out of all these women, none of them feel jealousy

or anger

but again I'm biased because monogamy is in my blood and it's the only way I play

monogamy for life
It is a harem game - it is not meant to be realistic. With almost any harem game I play wish fulfillment and suspension of disbelief is a given so no jealousy etc is exactly the kind of reaction I expect from the girls. And there is nothing wrong with that. You have both realistic games and harem games like this. They are just two different types of games that take different approaches. One type is not better than the other type and all games being the exact same and having the same approach would be boring as fuck so as far as I am concerned diversity and having different types of games is good for AVNs as a whole.

I also think that this game is written to be a harem game and both the game and the dev are pretty upfront about it so having incorrect expectations might just disappoint you. Rejecting a subset of girls or even all of them is an option but if you are going into the game with the expectation that there will be fully fleshed out paths with vastly different content from the harem option I think you will only end up disappointing yourself. Personally I think the not selecting certain girls routes is just going to be a 'skip content' option and there might be a separate solo girl ending similar to once in a lifetime. But that's about it. I dont think you will get anything more.
 
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Oh boy there's too much to answer but talking about monogamy in Eternum is going to give me eczema so I'll be brief on that one, just a little quote and back to waiting for that storm to pass.
So ending up with a harem option that is somewhat convincing and that makes sense without contradicting a lot of what we know about the characters and the world so far, will be very difficult.
For everyone who don't know yet : we've already established that the harem path is 300% the canon path in Eternum. We know that because first OiAL is a harem, and second there's a clear build up to that (thinking about threesomes, Penny and Nova, the fun banter between Dalia and Penny, Nancy being suspicious of Annie who almost spill the beans, or just straight up the fact that we just miss some scenes by ignoring a girl...). So far, Caribdis seems to build up to it pretty nicely. This is not some "forced harem" like some devs try to do, Eternum is meant to go this way. Honestly I think this is one of the reason it's so good : not only all the girls are great and unique, but also you know you don't have to choose because Caribdis is going to make them accept it slowly and still keep the character's reactions realistic and not contradictory.

As for it being realistic, it is in the context of the story and the characters so far (it's called consistancy).

So yeah you can keep talking about your monogamous playthroughs, but just don't go and think that the harem path is not the canon path now.

If you want monogamy, this is the wrong game for it. Harem will always find a way in Eternum.
 

Dylan741

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I cant comment on the relationships part because I'm biased monogamy is in my blood

but it's always weird in these games that all the girls react to it the same way

girls are supposed to have different personalities but they're all okay with him being with other women

you expect me to believe that out of all these women, none of them feel jealousy

or anger

but again I'm biased because monogamy is in my blood and it's the only way I play

monogamy for life
Yeah, I agree that's why I said that about it being strange, it's not easy to write a good harem story because it's not realistic nowadays ( exception exist of course, but that's what they are) to have so many women having a committed relations with a man, not something casual but wanting to share him for the rest of their lives.
Like I wrote few authors made a somewhat realistic approach to a real harem ( it's a wrong term though, a polyamorous relations is more correct), Talothral with Sorcerer did it in my opinion, and Perverteer too with Sisterly Lust ( the moment Reachel confronted MC after finding it with the other sister Bella was very good), and even then the end was a little weak though it was better than most because it's difficult to believe in it.
And Caribdis in Eternum is working good premises for it, we will see what happen, one thing is certain harem/poly are just a fantasy they are the less realistic things possible, and that what's make them interesting to me, providing that the story is good enough to let the suspension of disbelief let pass the fact that too many women loving the same man is a weird thing as you said.
To enjoy a harem game you really need to not think too much and take it as lightly as possible or else it will not work, that's what I do and that's why I play very few of them to the full extent. :)
 
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Yeah, I agree that's why I said that about it being strange, it's not easy to write a good harem story because it's not realistic nowadays ( exception exist of course, but that's what they are) to have so many women having a committed relations with a man, not something casual but wanting to share him for the rest of their lives.
Like I wrote few authors made a somewhat realistic approach to a real harem ( it's a wrong term though, a polyamorous relations is more correct), Talothral with Sorcerer did it in my opinion, and Perverteer too with Sisterly Lust ( the moment Reachel confronted MC after finding it with the other sister Bella was very good), and even then the end was a little weak though it was better than most because it's difficult to believe in it.
And Caribdis in Eternum is working good premises for it, we will see what happen, one thing is certain harem/poly are just a fantasy they are the less realistic things possible, and that what's make them interesting to me, providing that the story is good enough to let the suspension of disbelief let pass the fact that too any women loving the same man is a weird thing as you said.
To enjoy a harem game you really need to not think too much and take it as lightly as possible or else it will not work, that's what I do and that's why I play very few of them to the full extent. :)
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I just hope the solo route are good and romantic and it doesn't seem like they were added in at the last minute
 

Takkatakka

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For everyone who don't know yet : we've already established that the harem path is 300% the canon path in Eternum.
I'm aware of that. What I'm saying is: I hope it will work out better than the ending of OiaLT, because there it felt very rushed and didn't really make sense - at least for some of the characters like the teacher.
 
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I'm aware of that. What I'm saying is: I hope it will work out better than the ending of OiaLT, because there it felt very rushed and didn't really make sense - at least for some of the characters like the teacher.
It did not make sense for some characters like the teacher and the mom because they were not prioritized in the main story. They were not involved with the main plot investigating Astaroth and they did not have scenes with the other girls. While the harem reveal was abrupt it did not feel out of place for Lauren, Judie and Aiko to be in the MC's harem because they had scenes together, they were tied to the main plot and so on.

Eternum does not have that problem. All the girls are involved this time, there are a lot of scenes with more than 1 girl together, there are even group scenes like the banking heist (and it looks like there will be another group scene in the next update from the previews). I think it is a lot easier to make this game a harem than once in a lifetime.

Sure there are some unrealistic things like the girls not being jealous, no relationship drama, a group of supermodel tier girls all being interested in one man etc but thats just the nature of harem games and it does not impact my enjoyment of the game in any way. There are far more unrealistic things in the game after all such as the following:

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A bunch of supermodels throwing themselves at you and agreeing to be in a harem seems extremely realistic in comparison
 
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Isn't it interesting that some people who readily accept the fantastic premise of this game itself, find accepting polyamory/harem troublesome?

Not wrong, just interesting.
I think it is less about accepting it and more about personal preferences/biases. Nothing wrong with that of course. People like what they like.

It only becomes a problem when people try to push the developer to change the game based on their preferences and that is not what is happening here.
 

Son of Durin

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But, no, you're not going to get situations where if you romance Girl A, she marries you, if you don't, she joins a convent or commits suicide or kills your puppy or some other path that completely changes the story. I say, thank goodness!
Unless it's Michaela (sp?): she'll drug you, tie you down naked, get you up, mount you, and just as you're really getting into and about to blow, pinch you off and leave you bleeding and emasculated.
 

Son of Durin

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Ahh! You want to be able to remove a girl completely from the MC's experience if he's not on a romantic path with her.

I don't really know of games that do that. They may become friends or enemies, but not ghosts, unless they actually do die.

I'm afraid I'm not interested in what you're looking for. But that's on me. Carry on.
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Unless it's Michaela (sp?): she'll drug you, tie you down naked, get you up, mount you, and just as you're really getting into and about to blow, pinch you off and leave you bleeding and emasculated.
I say that's a scenario that could happen to Chang if he pisses off Michaela for a very specific reason. :eek:
 
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I cant comment on the relationships part because I'm biased monogamy is in my blood

but it's always weird in these games that all the girls react to it the same way

girls are supposed to have different personalities but they're all okay with him being with other women

you expect me to believe that out of all these women, none of them feel jealousy

or anger

but again I'm biased because monogamy is in my blood and it's the only way I play

monogamy for life

I respect your opinion, but being monogamous in a game where you have the possibility of a harem is like when you go to a party at 7 o'clock in the evening and go home after 30 minutes... Basically you lose 80% of the content.

in addition, we are talking about a universe in which you must be able to enjoy what you have. If the partners were against the polygamous relationship, you would not be able to enjoy the same experience in the game.

The purpose of a game is to detach yourself from reality. If you want the experience to be as close to reality as possible, then it would be a simulation and not a game.


Unless it's Michaela (sp?): she'll drug you, tie you down naked, get you up, mount you, and just as you're really getting into and about to blow, pinch you off and leave you bleeding and emasculated.
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